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Heart the Lover: Unexpected

I expected Lily King’s Heart the Lover to be a light romance. Following the college romance of Jordan and Sam and then Jordan and Yash, the book offers up a reading that is on its face that of falling in love, being in love, and heartbreak. With scenes of staying up late to play ridiculous card games, it brought this reader back to my own years of many (many) hours of Settlers of Catan, or nights of drinking wine and pretending we knew enough to debate X philosophical topic before dragging ourselves to brunch the next day.

And while it is that story – the one you expect of life altering, too-big-for-feeling-these-feelings youth on the cusp of adult – it is also one of how we live with the One Decision that Changes Our Lives over many years and into the end of our lives. Realizing – always and again – that we only live once, only one wild and precious life etc, the book asks of Jordan to confront again (and again) her decisions around Yash (which for the sake of spoilers I won’t go into here).

And while it’s true that Jordan has to make one choice in the moment and it’s one choice that she then has to live with, the book offers the perspective that there may, actually, be many right choices to a life well lived and a life full of love. That rather than an option where there is the one decision that could lead you to the one right outcome for life, there are instead choices that lend to happier/harder paths, but also that happier/harder paths present themselves over and over again – that life, unlike a final exam, doesn’t have one right answer.

And for those of us who want nothing but straight As and gold stars and proof that we are doing it Right, this is an excellent book for remembering that we can find/choose/decide again and again love, friendship and joy, but that as much as many of these are our choices to make, we are also subject to the whims of disease, death, surprise and chance. And so yes we should carefully choose what we most want of this wild and precious life, but we should also hold with gentle gratitude those moments and people where we find love, friendship and joy because it is all a choice and it is all random.

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Yesteryear: Divisive?

I mentioned to my colleagues that I had just finished reading Caro Claire Burke’s Yesteryear and one of them asked whether I’d liked it because it was ‘divisive.’

And I can see it. The book follows Natalie, Caleb and their children as they farm in the backwoods of Idaho in the 2020s. (It’s tempting to put caveats around much of that sentence: the farm was purchased at great expense by Caleb’s father, Natalie and Caleb do not of the farming – this work is outsourced to Mexican labourers, it may be the backwoods but for the adults, at least, there is plenty of contact with the wider world). Natalie is a Tradwife – a “traditional wife,” that is one most interested in exercising ‘traditional female values and behaviours’ (here I can’t resist the scare quotes) of submission and cornbread imagined to exist in earlier times in a Good Christian Household (TM).

In the first chapters I thought ‘there is not enough plot here to sustain a whole novel,’ but the introduction of a parallel timeline of the 1850s when Natalie wakes up in the same house, but it is not her house, with the same husband who is not her husband, same children who are not her children. And so in back and forth chapters we time travel with Natalie as she tries to figure out how she’s in this time period (and how to get out of it?)(I suppose there’s something of a ‘mystery’ in this plot structure, too. Another reader might be more captivated by trying to figure out the mechanics – is it time travel? kidnapping? – but for this reader I accepted two timelines and moved on) with the present day chapters actually the very recent past as the reader comes to understand how Natalie’s tradwife life operated.

Operated is a deliberate word choice as the book is interest in the economics of influencers with Natalie sustaining the business of the farm by live broadcasting through photos and reels all of her tradwife activities from posed scenes of maternal bliss with her children through to making soap and biscuits. There’s one scene where she attends a webinar on how to make money as an influencer that is telling in that the entire audience are women looking to make money from home (one cannot help but see the echos of the multi-level marketing schemes of tupperwear and makeup); and, as Natalie hides pockets of her influencer money away for herself, we are reminded of the economic dependence tradwives, or wives, often have on their male counterparts and the long, long, long history of women trying to find ways to make money for themselves while also maintaining home and hearth.

That is, of course, the crux of the book: how do women do it all? The book’s assessment – like most of feminist theory – is they cannot. And while most feminist theory has moved beyond assigning this pressure to maintain ideals of femininity, or fulfilling careers amid expert parenting, to individual women and instead considers structural conditions (up to and including The! Patriarchy!) this book does very little to imagine anything beyond specific Men Who Are Mean or Stupid and Natalie, individual woman up against the world.

Oh and up against other women who are all positioned as against her (again another feminist reading might be curious why the villains in the novel are all women tearing down women, here imaginatively-not-so-imaginatively called the “Angry Women,” but also specific characters – the daughter, the domestic helper, the college roommate, villains one and all.

And so here’s where I suppose the book is divisive. It’s not a particularly nuanced take on being a woman in the world, despite having enormous thematic, formal (as in the structure), and character-driven attention to questions of maternity and femininity in its social, political, economic, religious and personal deployment. You could for sure host many book club or undergraduate seminars on different scenes of the book and ask questions about how women are represented, how women represent themselves, nevermind debating the ending.

But for me (and this may be its own divisive claim) I didn’t particularly care if the book was on the ‘right’ side of the political debate about independent women or if it did enough to expose the vacuous heart of social media (as if we didn’t know) or the hypocrisy of Good Christian Women (as if we didn’t know). It was enjoyable to read – I read the entire thing in a weekend, a rarity these days – it gave me the illusion I was thinking about bigger questions than what to make for lunch – a rarity these days.

So if nothing else, if you find yourself a woman in a book club (and of course you do, because you’re a woman in the world and you need a book club even if you, like me, are in a book club that does not read a book but instead holds one another through it all because *spoiler: this was never meant to be a solo trip) then go, go, get Yesteryear and let me know all the ways I’ve fallen short in writing this review. (I’d expect nothing less from Angry Women tearing down Smart Women etc.)

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Flashlight: And I thought I had family drama

It took me nine weeks and three recalls from the library to finish Susan Choi’s Flashlight and it’s my fault, I know. My excuses are feeble – how many times can I claim divorce as a distraction from fiction? just the once? lol – and made more pathetic by the quality of the book, which is: excellent.

There is the beautiful writing – and it is – and the core mystery of the book that begins with what happens to the father and continues throughout – but there is, more, the depth of the characters. A great ability to hold a character over a lifetime – from child to aging adult – and make moments of their development and change feel neither forced or inevitable, instead the ways we choose our life in scenes of deliberate (in)action.

You want more of a plot description? Fine, fine. Serk – the dad – and 10 year old Louisa are out on the beach in Japan (despite Serk hating the water, but these are the sacrifices we make for our children). Next thing we know Louisa is washed up on shore, Serk is gone (presumed dead) and Louisa attatches herself to a memory of a flashlight.

Then back and forth we go through space and time – to Serk’s childhood in Japan to a family in postwar North Korea to Louisa’s mother, Anne, and her choice to give up her son Tobias before marrying Serk and the kind of kid Tobias is and how they all fit together in bits of part truths and a lot of Things That Go Unsaid.

It’s a book about memory – those that are real, those we invent, those we wish we could forget, those we didn’t know we had until something (a song, a smell) finds them for us – and a book about how and why we hope.

And so with that – here’s hoping this was a blocker book – the kind so rich it held me for literal months – but now complete I can with a rush read all the many, many books mounting around me in my ceaseless aspiration to be 25 again and doing nothing all summer but reading. Alas.

I’m not actually sure if I should suggest this one for your summer reading list given how long it took me to finish. But you, dear reader, are better focused and better energized than I. So read. So read.

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Under the Same Stars: Stand Up

I remembered liking Libba Bray from a hundred years ago when I read Going Bovine but on reading that review it turns out that book was just “okay,” and so is Under the Same Stars: just okay.

In this case a three-part time frame set around the same loosely connected family and a quasi-mystery. The mystery: two girls disappear in a German forest during WWII presumed dead. The loosely connected family are the girls and the generations that follow – connected in some cases by family but more through place.

It is mostly a book that repeatedly and excessively emphasizes its theme (it all but quotes the poem ‘first they came for the X and I did nothing) that against moral outrage we have responsibilities to stand up and resist. And while the current political moment is not named, the book makes very clear the repeated instances of authoritarian violence and the obligation for people of good conscience to do more than passively observe.

This morning L. was telling me how her friends play a game where one child is excluded by the rest – the excluded game – and she was trying to explain that she wasn’t doing anything because she was just walking around with them. And while rushing out the door to camp was not the moment to get into bystanders and the immorality of inaction, I did strike me then, as it did when I was reading the book, how obvious it is that we should each act in the face of injustice and how difficult it seems to be to exercise that kind of agency and courage when the appeal of just walking around is so tempting.

Anyway, it’s not a very good book in that the characters are not that rich, the plot not all that surprising (you can call the outcome to the mystery pretty early on) and the theme so transparently aggressive that one does want to scream a bit (though reminding myself it is YA I’ll try to be more generous).

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